A man married a woman when he was twenty four years old.At first the woman pretended to be kind,later she showed her weak points and shortcomings. She was quite lazy ,gluttonous and luxury .She seldom did the housework including cooking and washing. She always spent lots of money on clothes but hardly ever bought anything for her husband.She was always greedy for delicious food.The worst of all was that she was lechery ,she enjoyed flirting with anyone ,and even made love with them.AT this time ,the man decided to divorce with her,but his parents persuaded him not to do so because they had already had a daughter,in order not to let the child lose her mother ,the man had to give up the idea and bore her shameless actions,they just quarreled with each other strongly,and then she promised to change her behaviour.However,her nature was not easily changed.She now and again made appointments with other men and seldom cared for the child,but the man still didnt divorce her,and they had the second daughter,the man and his parents expected the children and her growing age might make her become a better woman.To all the people's anger,she became more and more shameless ,she went out to accompany the men to drind wine without returning home deep into night.At last the man couldnt tolerate her and they divorced after seventeen years of marriage life. Only at this moment the man found his lost honour and liberated himself,but he lost lots of property and precious time on her.It is never late for a person to correct his mistakes.If he divorced earlier,he would get his happiness earlier.At present he has married again and his wife loves him very much and they live happily together. What is Marriage??? U may have the question above.and is it means love fortress, love terminator or true love engine? Marriage is not just coming together of two individuals. There is much more to it. To sustain a marriage it is important that there is effort from both sides than only a marriage can carry on. A successful marriage is like a good recipe whose main ingredients are love, commitment, understanding, concern and togetherness. If you can include these aspects in your married life you can find happiness in your marriage. Andre Maurois once aptly said, "A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short." It is true. When we talk about mental compatibility between husband and wife we have seen that not only incase of arrange marriage this problem exist where both of them were unknown to each other before marriage but even after many years of courtship in love marriages this problem exist because when we meet before marriage we are at our best to impress the other person. And we start accepting each other the way we like to see each other. But gradually after marriage when we slip into our natural self that time we have to accept each other as we are. And in most of the cases the real self is not what we wanted to see and then begins the contradiction with the person whom we have loved and with whom I have to spend my life. So it's important that when you love a person love him or her the way he or she is and not the way you want him or her to be. Thus you can be happy.
Wed, 01/10/2008 - 11:32am — Vita Tang
Recently, i've been focusing myself on Yeats----a famous Irish poet.